I'm of the opinion that when it comes to decisions like this it should be the gut/intuition who has the final say. For both of you! But to give you my own opinion I would probably go with Korea too. Though I would add a caution - you dont really know if he will be in any danger over there or not. Its always possible that the situation can turn ...

Right, well my husband is in AIT to be a 33Whiskey, now called a 35Tango.  He's graduating in early August, and just recieved orders for Korea.  And I can't go.  Apparently less than 10% of married soldiers get to take their families, and they're all higher-ups.  Before my husband and I agreed that if he got ...